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To love is a verb, which means you wish your beloved to be happy. You start care, doing things which makes him or her happy. You make your decissions from the point of view that your beloved would feel happy. It's hard, it's about pure love. Like a mother loves her kids. Doing something just because she loves.
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Is it possible to love that way? Not like win win game between the partners, but as pure feeling when you just fulfilled with happiness of making your beloved happy.
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I hope, because I do know what is love. Still when you love that way and it doesn't work - in final there is just pain. So sometimes its easier to make simple choice. Not to open your soul, not to love just live in comfort.
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